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Saturday, January 31, 2009

Top 5 Lessons to Learn from GSP

Most sports fans at least heard about the recent UFC fight between Georges St. Pierre and BJ Penn. Truthfully, I like GSP as a fighter and competitor, but since BJ is the local boy from Hawaii, of course, we had to root for him.

If you saw or heard about the fight, you know that GSP dominated!

There are reasons why I like and respect GSP and these qualities are also a big part of why he's so great at what he does.

So here is my list of the Top 5 Lessons to Learn from GSP

5. Never make excuses
Even after losses or disappointing fights, I never heard this guy make excuses like most other fighters (and athletes in general) tend to do. He simply states what he didn't do or what he needed to have done differently to have had a chance at a better fight. He doesn't blame other people, outside influences, or his situation. He takes responsibility for his shortcomings (and often apologizes to his fans and supporters) without making excuses as for why he fell short and without acting like a crybaby. He just tells it like it is, takes responsibility for his own performance, and moves forward.

4. No matter how good you are, always push to become better
Even if you're a champion, don't just sit back and think you're hot stuff. Continue to learn and seek improvement. GSP always seems to be open to new training, new techniques, and new strategies. He has a good team of people around him and actually listens to their insights. Many players, especially good ones, tend to have a "I already know everything I need to know" mentality. They shut out what their coaches and trainers are trying to teach them without even giving them a chance. Once you think you know it all or "have it all" you aren't going to get any better and someone will pass you by. Someone who, like GSP, is eternally seeking to get better no matter how good they already are. That person will eventually fly right past you as if you were standing still because once you think you're all that, you will stop moving forward.

3. Train hard!
When GSP trains for a fight, he doesn't mess around. The harder you push yourself in training, the more confidence you'll have in competition. Leave nothing to chance. Just because you are "supposed" to win doesn't mean you can afford to slack in practice. It might end up biting you in the butt. The more you push yourself in practice, the more confidence you'll have in the game because you know you've already done everything you could possible do to get ready. Don't allow lack of preparation to be the difference between you and your opponent. Don't take the chance that you will be less successful simply because you chose not to prepare. Remember, the harder you train, the easier the game.

2. Get over yourself
So many people, especially those that are getting to a level where they are experiencing success, are so caught up with themselves that they miss out on the opportunity to know their opponent. Players and teams can get caught up with the, "Well, I can do this" and "Our _____ is better than theirs" or "That team doesn't have the ______ that we do." Knowing your opponent and what their strengths and weaknesses are and finding a way to be smart in your "attack" on them will go a lot farther than being "into" everything you can do. Yes, it's good to be confident, but stop focusing on the how "great you are" and prepare. Forget about all those things that you "can" do and figure out what you "need" to do in order to break your opponent down and tear them apart. In other words, even if you have all the physical talent and ability to outplay your opponent, be smart! Don't just go in and try to match blow for blow, muscle for muscle, when you could be working smarter, not harder and be more successful.

1. Always respect your opponents
After every fight I've seen, and maybe I haven't seen them all, GSP always shows respect to his opponents, win or lose. Even when he loses and talks about what he should have done differently, he still manages to give credit to the other fighter and not lessen what they have done. Often times I'll see athletes come out on the losing end of a competition and make it all about them. "I didn't do this" or "I should've done that" and things would have been different "if only I..." without giving any credit to the person on the other side...as if that other person just got lucky they had a bad day. While it may be true that you didn't do what you needed to do to come out on top, your opponent did have the ability to take advantage of the opportunities presented. Most of the time, especially in big games or tough competitions, your opponent trained hard and wanted that prize just as much as you did (or maybe more). Do not belittle their efforts. Give credit where credit is due. It's getting more and more rare to see athletes with the kind of class GSP often displays. I can't stand it when I see players or teams win championships and then shove it into their opponents face. It's one thing to be excited and happy and pumped up and celebrate what you just accomplished. It's another to rub it in to the opponent you just beat. Respect the game by respecting everyone involved.

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Monday, November 24, 2008

Hitting: Getting Past the Intimidation Factor

I'm sure you've seen it before: batters who are completely intimidated by the pitcher they are facing. This audio talks about what happens when batters can't get past that intimidation factor and a tool that can't help you help your hitters.

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Saturday, November 22, 2008

Weird and Stupid, but Effective

Today I want to share something with you that's both weird and stupid, but highly effective. Sounds crazy right? Actually, it is a bit crazy, but if you need help with mental game issues, with pain, or with other performance problems you just can't seem to get past, listen to this weird and stupid tool that I've come to believe in.


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Thursday, November 20, 2008

Where are those expert conversations?

I've had a number of questions about where to get those conversations with experts I was doing as well as what exactly is in the Fastpitch Insider Bootcamp (week by week).
So, I'm going to answer those questions for you right here.
Expert Conversations
A while back I mentioned that every now and then I read articles or newsletters and end up having all kinds of questions pop into my head. Then I figured I'd try to actually contact the experts who I had questions for and see if they'd be willing to talk story with me and answer those questions. Of course, I was excited to find out that some of them were more than willing to have a chat with me. I ended up being able to talk with 4 different experts. Now originally, I was just going to put those conversations together to create a mini seminar series and that was it. Then I decided that I could give you more and that's when the Fastpitch Insider 2008 session went from being a "seminar series" to becoming a full blown "bootcamp." In addition to putting the conversations together, I added in a bunch of resources to help you get ready for the 2009 season. With good preparation you can greatly reduce your coaching stress during the season, avoid many obstacles, and increase your chance at success. So that's basically what the bootcamp is all about and although doors will be closing soon, there's still time for you to get in at www.allaboutfastpitch.com/bootcamp.html
HOWEVER, if you're not interested in all that and you just want the conversations, ONLY the experts conversations, and want to forego all the resources to help you reduce your coaching stress while increasing your chance of success for '09, then keep an eye on the blog next week because I will give you a chance to grab the "conversations only" package.

For those that had questions on just what the bootcamp covers over the course of the 8 weeks, read on.

The bootcamp week by week
Here's your "table of contents" so to speak...
Week 1: Pick up your 3 bootcamp bonuses, introduction, and logistics to think about
Week 2: What does it take to be a great coach, an exercise to get you thinking about specific improvements for '09, a good hard look at YOU.
Week 3: Coaching Philosophy - definition, how it will help you as a coach, why you should be addressing it now, the key ingredient and how to get clear on it, and an exercise to help you develop a solid and effective coaching philosophy
Week 4: Vision, definition, how it's different from philosophy, vision basics, what a good vision is like, and exercise to get clear on your vision for your team/program
Week 5: Tryouts! Conversation with Marc Dagenais and how he got a team full of dedicated, hard working players, how to effectively evaluate your players to build the best team possible, plus tips from other coaches, and 2 printable forms you can use for player evaluation
Week 6: The all important parent meeting, what to cover, sample letter and agenda, leadership, time management, and stress relief so you can be the MOST effective coach possible.
Week 7: Coaching the mental game, conversations with both Dr. Patrick Cohn, and Dr. Tom Hanson. Pre-game mistakes you and your players may be making, how to start implementing mental game training in your practices, plus Dr. Hanson's #1 tool for helping athletes and why you should start thinking about coaching the mental game now.
Week 8: Special lesson, recap, and conversation with Bill Hillhouse about pitching, mistakes, how to evaluate instructors, when to teach pitch calling, rules of thumb for attacking batters, how to go after batter's your not familiar with, and more.
In addition, all bootcamp members get free access to the Online College Recruiting Educational System and will be able to access it to be able to help their players through the college recruiting process and also can access the softball training workouts included in that online system.
Gosh, that seems like a lot, and I know how busy you are so I'm not going to ask you to listen to hour long seminars or read super long reports. I know I don't have time for that right now with it being the holiday season and all and I figured you probably don't either. So each week is broken down into bite-sized, easy to manage parts so that even if you just have 15-20 minutes 3-4 times a week, you should be able to get through all the content without falling behind.
So, if you to check out the expert conversations and get ready for the season, there's still time to get into the bootcamp at www.allaboutfastpitch.com/bootcamp.html
If you aren't interested in all the information mentioned above, I'll be in touch next week with a "conversation only" option.
Well, that's about it. Hope you have a wonderful weekend!

P.S. - Lots of questions have also been coming in about the mental game and earlier this week I gave out a link to a free program Dr. Tom Hanson has for helping players consistently play at their best. Well since then a flood of coaches and parents have been going over to check it out. I know because Tom's been keeping me posted on sign-ups and it's just crazy! Apparently, lots of people really want this information and I thought you might too. If you haven't picked up your free copy of the program yet, CLICK HERE and get the information you need to help your players consistently play their best.

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Wednesday, May 14, 2008

Free Performance Program For You

Mr. Tom Hanson of www.GetSoftballConfidence.com has put together a free program for you called:

"How to Overcome Failure and Play as Well in Games as You Do in Practice"


Wouldn't that be great? Do you find yourself (or your players) performing great in practice when there's no pressure, but not quite so great in game situations when the play or hit really counts? Find out how you can take your success from practice field into game situations. After all, it doesn't do a whole lot of good if you can hit the ball out of the park in practice, but can't even tough it in the game. It doesn't matter much if you can throw every change-up just right in practice, but don't have any command over it in the game. And it can be very frustrating to field zillions of grounders in practice just fine (and follow it up with a great throw too), but miss the simple ground ball your team needed you to stop in the game.

This free program can help. It includes 5 Lessons which take you step-by-step through the fundamentals of the mental game. Get it now at
http://www.allaboutfastpitch.com/CoachingProgram.pdf

The other day I received an e-mail from a coach who asked for help because his team would often fall apart once errors were made in the game. That made me think of the title of this program "How to Overcome Failure..." Again, this program is designed to lead you through the fundamentals of the mental game which is what needs work if your team is unable to overcome mistakes.

There's no cost, no risk, nothing to lose, just knowledge and simple, helpful tools you can use to improve your softball performance.

Instantly download your free copy of this program at
http://www.allaboutfastpitch.com/CoachingProgram.pdf

After you've had a chance to go through this program, please let me know what you think my clicking on the "What do you think" link below an leaving me a comment.

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Monday, September 24, 2007

Softball and Life - Dealing with Adversity

One thing I love about softball, and sports in general, is that it really can prepare you for challenges in life. Right now, my family and I are going through a bit of a challenging time with selling our house and buying another. We are in escrow to sell, but it seems like nothing is going the way that it should. There seem to be surprises and set backs at every turn. But somehow I know that everything will work out eventually even if it all takes longer than we originally planned. Even after the latest set back that I just found out this morning, I'm feeling rather peaceful about the whole thing. I'm not discouraged and I think a lot of my ability to stay positive and focused on the "big picture" comes from my experience with softball.

There are many times during a season or even just in the course of a game when things just don't go as planned, when your team faces unexpected challenges and obstacles. Yes, they can be frustrating, but in a way, I actually embrace this adversity. Why? Because if you can face these challenges head on and overcome these obstacles on the field, chances are that you can do the same in life. So when I see players working through problems and continue working toward their goals, I love it because I know that they will probably be just fine in the "real world." On the other hand, if they have a really tough time on the field, I worry because if they can't pull it off on the field, having fun playing a game they enjoy, how are they going to find a way in life? How will they be able to deal with adversity at work when they are at a job that they don't necessarily love or look forward to going to every day? How will they be able to face challenges in those types of situations when they can't even do it in a sport they love?

This is why teaching the attitude/mental part of the game is sooooo important to me. Those are the skills that really transfer into life. While throwing, fielding, and hitting mechanics are important and things that I'm quite picky on as well, it's really the "intangibles" that I like to see develop. You can have the best mechanics in the world at practice, but if your mind is not strong enough to allow your body to perform at it's peak in the game, it really doesn't matter how great you are in practice does it?

If you need help with this area of the game, sign up for a free mental game newsletter at GetSoftballConfidence.com.

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Monday, June 18, 2007

Interview with Mental Game Expert Tom Hanson

Hey - just dropping in to let you know that the interview with Mr. Tom Hanson is up and ready for you to listen to.

If you want to take your game to the next level by learning to play with confidence when it really counts, Tom Hanson can help.

Coaches and parents, if you want to learn how to get more out of your players by helping them train their mind as well as their body, again, Tom Hanson and his Heads Up Performance website is where you need to be.

Listen to our interview with Tom at www.FastpitchTalkRadio.com - click on the Listen Now Button.

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